Confused just a bit

Another time-capsulated post from October last year, 2016:
I guess I still don’t know what to do to resolve the friend situation, even though I have the home telephone number and address. I have tried all the other methods of making contact, and I’m sure I have lost a friend or a friend too, cause I cannot get hold of them to give them their bass string.

I had a friend for a few days and now it seems as though I said something seen in the wrong context. I’m lost as to what I did wrong?!

People are breaking down around me and they are so relaxed about their current situations. Yet when engaging with them, I discover that if they find another job then they will jump ship. So they rather run than fight? Can I fight for them and turn their situations around before they leave?